8 Steps To Self Love And Development

There is no better feeling in the world than that of self-love, peace of mind and contentment. A lot of people get frustrated, blaming it on unfortunate and unfavorable life experiences, little did they know that they are the reason for their unhappiness and pain.

When you are unhappy with yourself, your world also becomes unhappy with you, therefore all you see and get will be more unhappiness. you can change the way you feel, this alone is what brings love, peace of mind and over-all success and joy to you. The following are ways to develop yourself:

1. Believe in yourself

First, you must believe in yourself to be able to develop yourself. You need to give yourself a great deal of positive energy to be able to develop yourself. You cannot wait for someone else to encourage because it may take a while or it may take forever.

2. Don’t be jealous or envious of another

Practice the act of non-jealousy and envy because, with this, you will be calm and well balanced enough for your quest in life. Jealousy and envy are true signs of believing that someone else is better than you. Though not easy, you can succeed in this practice. Remind yourself every hour that you are better in your own way until you are able to erase jealousy and envy from you. Jealousy and envy of another brings about;
  • Anger,
  • Hatred,
  • Unrest,
  • Self-condemnation,
  • Failure, and
  • Evil.
The above result overworks your body system, steal away your happiness, balance focus, and causes you to fail in every area of your life.

3. Outline your needs and purpose in life

what do you think you are created for? Why do you think you are African, Asian, Jamaican? Etc why are you born into a particular type of belief, culture, or religion? What do you desire to give out to your world? Will your world benefit positively or negatively from it?. As you answer these and many more questions in stillness and meditation, do well to write them down and go through it over and over again.

4. Meditate on your outlined needs and dream

A lot is known only in the stillness of mind and body and meditation. Go to a calm and clean place, better in a place where you have interactions with nature and quietly meditate on your outlined needs and purpose.

5. Seek advice from a professional and your spiritual leader

In every field of life, there are professionals, a spiritualist who has through study, research and life experience gathered the immeasurable amount of knowledge, wisdom, and strategies on how to go about the questions and knowledge you seek.

6. Research

Research involves going from place to place, surfing the internet, etc for knowledge. Learn from those who have been in the field you seek before you.

7. Keep practicing

Practice makes perfect. Sometimes you find out that the things you knew truly well, you no longer know much about or even have a clue about. Well, that is because you stopped caring to know it by practicing and updating your knowledge on it.

8. Don’t be afraid to try out things

Whether new or old, successful or failed ideas. just learn how to do it better and try again and again until you are able to do it effortlessly  

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

16 Reasons Why You Should Drink Moringa Tea Everyday

21 Best Natural Makeup Ideas for all Season and Event

23 Colored Wedding Dress Ideas for Unique Brides

How To Make Moringa-Ginger Tea

Six Skin care beauty tips for a natural ageless look (Part One)

Stress Management: 7 Ways to Manage Stress

Easy Throw-Pillow Craft Tutorial

20 Things you should not take along with you to 2020

10 Outfits for Tall and Skinny Women

How to love a Typical Nigerian Man - 17 Rewarding Ways